One of the hardest things for me through Odette's illness has been having to "miss out" on what we might normally have been doing if she wasn't at the hospital sick. Even if it has been difficult, we have tried to stick to our regular traditions with the family. We have done most traditions, it is just hard to have part of the family missing each time. Only part of us get to participate.
For birthdays each year, we usually get the kids a helium balloon for each year they are old. (Yes, this is my tradition I started because growing up one of my friends said that is what their family did and I thought it was so cool. Besides, what kid doesn't like balloons?!) One balloon seemed dumb for Odette so we thought about getting 18 and saying one for every year we want you to have a birthday while living at our house. This didn't work because they wouldn't fit in the car, so we got three. Don't ask why we got three, but Odette is in love with the balloons.
Now for seeing what our traditional Thanksgiving will end up being tomorrow being at the hospital. At least the hospital is making an exception and the kids will be able to come up tomorrow so it will be fun to have the family all together eating whatever the temperature the food ends up being after an hour drive up to Primary Children's.
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